“What are we talking about when we talk about love”? Forgive us, Mr Carver, but very often what we are really talking about is sex. And very often again we tend to confuse the two. Not this time, though. We want to talk about sex, sharp and clear: all the secrets of online dating, why Italians are champions of cheating and why is better to flirt with an Italian but merry a Brit, tantric sex and orgasmic meditation and a very saucy story about swingers' parties busy bankers attend. Happy reading.